Chapter
19
PRESERVE
YOUR INTEGRITY
It
is more precious than diamonds or rubies. The old miser
said to his sons: "Get money; get it honestly, if you
can, but get money." This advice was not only
atrociously wicked, but it was the very essence of
stupidity. It was as much as to say, "if you find it
difficult to obtain money honestly, you can easily get
it dishonestly. Get it in that way." Poor fool! Not to
know that the most difficult thing in life is to make
money dishonestly! not to know that our prisons are full
of men who attempted to follow this advice; not to
understand that no man can be dishonest, without soon
being found out, and that when his lack of principle is
discovered, nearly every avenue to success is closed
against him forever. The public very properly shun all
whose integrity is doubted. No matter how polite and
pleasant and accommodating a man may be, none of us dare
to deal with him if we suspect "false weights and
measures." Strict honesty, not only lies at the
foundation of all success in life (financially), but in
every other respect. Uncompromising integrity of
character is invaluable. It secures to its possessor a
peace and joy which cannot be attained without it--which
no amount of money, or houses and lands can purchase. A
man who is known to be strictly honest, may be ever so
poor, but he has the purses of all the community at his
disposal--for all know that if he promises to return
what he borrows, he will never disappoint them. As a
mere matter of selfishness, therefore, if a man had no
higher motive for being honest, all will find that the
maxim of Dr. Franklin can never fail to be true, that
"honesty is the best policy."
To
get rich, is not always equivalent to being successful.
"There are many rich poor men," while there are many
others, honest and devout men and women, who have never
possessed so much money as some rich persons squander in
a week, but who are nevertheless really richer and
happier than any man can ever be while he is a
transgressor of the higher laws of his being.
The
inordinate love of money, no doubt, may be and is "the
root of all evil," but money itself, when properly used,
is not only a "handy thing to have in the house," but
affords the gratification of blessing our race by
enabling its possessor to enlarge the scope of human
happiness and human influence. The desire for wealth is
nearly universal, and none can say it is not laudable,
provided the possessor of it accepts its
responsibilities, and uses it as a friend to humanity.
The
history of money-getting, which is commerce, is a
history of civilization, and wherever trade has
flourished most, there, too, have art and science
produced the noblest fruits. In fact, as a general
thing, money-getters are the benefactors of our race. To
them, in a great measure, are we indebted for our
institutions of learning and of art, our academies,
colleges and churches. It is no argument against the
desire for, or the possession of, wealth, to say that
there are sometimes misers who hoard money only for the
sake of hoarding and who have no higher aspiration than
to grasp everything which comes within their reach. As
we have sometimes hypocrites in religion, and demagogues
in politics, so there are occasionally misers among
money-getters. These, however, are only exceptions to
the general rule. But when, in this country, we find
such a nuisance and stumbling block as a miser, we
remember with gratitude that in America we have no laws
of primogeniture, and that in the due course of nature
the time will come when the hoarded dust will be
scattered for the benefit of mankind. To all men and
women, therefore, do I conscientiously say, make money
honestly, and not otherwise, for Shakespeare has truly
said, "He that wants money, means, and content, is
without three good friends."