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Chapter 1
DON'T
MISTAKE YOUR VOCATION
The safest plan, and the one most sure of
success for the young man starting in life, is to select
the vocation which is most congenial to his tastes.
Parents and guardians are often quite too negligent in
regard to this. It is very common for a father to say,
for example: "I have five boys. I will make Billy a
clergyman; John a lawyer; Tom a doctor, and Dick a
farmer." He then goes into town and looks about to see
what he will do with Sammy. He returns home and says
"Sammy, I see watch-making is a nice, genteel business;
I think I will make you a goldsmith." He does this,
regardless of Sam's natural inclinations, or genius.
We are all, no doubt, born for a wise
purpose. There is as much diversity in our brains as in
our countenances. Some are born natural mechanics, while
some have great aversion to machinery. Let a dozen boys
of ten years get together, and you will soon observe two
or three are "whittling" out some ingenious device;
working with locks or complicated machinery. When they
were but five years old, their father could find no toy
to please them like a puzzle. They are natural
mechanics; but the other eight or nine boys have
different aptitudes. I belong to the latter class; I
never had the slightest love for mechanism; on the
contrary, I have a sort of abhorrence for complicated
machinery. I never had ingenuity enough to whittle a
cider tap so it would not leak. I never could make a pen
that I could write with, or understand the principle of
a steam engine. If a man was to take such a boy as I
was, and attempt to make a watchmaker of him, the boy
might, after an apprenticeship of five or seven years,
be able to take apart and put together a watch; but all
through life he would be working up hill and seizing
every excuse for leaving his work and idling away his
time. Watchmaking is repulsive to him.
Unless a man enters upon the vocation
intended for him by nature, and best suited to his
peculiar genius, he cannot succeed. I am glad to believe
that the majority of persons do find their right
vocation. Yet we see many who have mistaken their
calling, from the blacksmith up (or down) to the
clergyman. You will see, for instance, that
extraordinary linguist the "learned blacksmith," who
ought to have been a teacher of languages; and you may
have seen lawyers, doctors and clergymen who were better
fitted by nature for the anvil or the lapstone.
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